Yesterday, I preached week 2 of our sermon series called “The Freedom of Grace.” In part, we looked at Galatians 2:11-14 where Paul calls Peter out for his hypocrisy. Peter was sharing meals with the Gentiles until the Jews showed up and Peter pulled away. Paul recognized that Peter’s actions were inconsistent with the Gospel and had led many astray, so he called him out publicly.

Paul’s exact words in verse 11 are, “…I opposed him to his face because he stood condemned.” Paul didn’t call Peter out because he was offended (though he may have been), or because he wanted to prove a point, or because he was trying to get the heat off himself and onto Peter. Paul called him out because he saw that Peter was not living in a manner worthy of the Gospel (see Philippians 1:27). This is such a timely message for us in our culture of outrage.

Somewhere along the line, we have gotten this false notion that we are called to condemn others for their actions if we think they are in the wrong. But if someone is in sin, they are already condemned.

Side note: we are not talking about eternal condemnation (see Romans 8:1). We are talking about a believer who is not walking in fellowship with God because of unrepentant sin in their life.

Our calling is not to condemn but to rebuke and exhort in love with the ultimate goal of that person’s repentance and restoration. Paul will later say in his letter to the Galatians: “Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted.” (Galatians 6:1) Are you picking up on the humility and gentleness that are required when calling a brother or sister out in their sin? Obviously, boldness is also a necessary component here, but I believe it looks a lot different than the outrage we often see around us.

The goal of our arguments often seems to be to prove that we are right rather than to see the Truth win out and Grace upheld. We feel accomplished if someone has realized their error and feels guilty about it and then we often leave them adrift in a sea of shame without actually pointing them back to the forgiving and restorative Grace of Jesus. In our efforts to ‘defend the truth’ we often hurt the testimony of Jesus because we are displaying ungodly anger and disunity with our fellow believers.

On the flip side of that, there are those who never address sin in the lives of their fellow believers for different reasons. That approach can be dangerous as well because left unchecked, it leads to all sorts of distortions of the Gospel. In both extremes, the Gospel is compromised which is why this is so important. We must be willing to speak the truth in love. Paul lays out the kind of Gospel unity that happens when we are willing to do this:

“Rather, speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up in every way into him who is the head, into Christ, from whom the whole body, joined and held together by every joint with which it is equipped, when each part is working properly, makes the body grow so that it builds itself up in love.”
Ephesians 4:15-16

Let us seek to continue building the body of Christ in love so that the Gospel can continue going forward.

I don’t know about you, but I have personally never made a New Year’s Resolution that I have been able to completely stick to. Actually, at this moment, I cannot even remember a single resolution that I’ve ever made. Part of that is because I don’t like doing things just because everyone else is doing them. The other reason is that I’ve always believed that true change comes far less in the big moments than the little moments. Let me explain.

New Year’s Resolutions are often about big things in your life that you want to change: diet, exercise, attitude, job, family, etc. We are thinking big picture with our resolutions when our lives are actually lived in small moments most often. For example, when you wake up in the morning, what’s the first thing you do? Check Facebook? Hit the snooze? Grab coffee? Scramble to get to work on time? How about how you spend your time when you get home from work? Are you focused on your family or just trying to make dinner, get the kids to bed, and prepare for another day? We usually aren’t taking these “small moment decisions” into account with our New Year’s Resolutions.

I am in no way saying we shouldn’t make them. I believe we should often look at the big picture of our lives and adjust the things that are lacking. I’m just suggesting that maybe the reason many of us struggle with sticking to them so much is that we are more focused on big moments that are few and far between than on the little moments that we spend most of our lives in. The apostle Paul put it this way:

“And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”
- Colossians 3:17

Those little moments that you take for granted because they happen everyday are actually moments that you can live for the glory of God. So make big resolutions and spend some time reflecting on the big picture of your life, and then strive to fulfill those resolutions in the small moments of your life. Better yet, don’t wait until each new year to strive for change. His mercies don’t wait until January 1st to renew - they are new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23).

Happy New Year to you all, and may God bless and keep you and your family this year.